Three basic systems of perceiving the world
- There are three systems of perceiving the world:
- Kinesthetic – body feelings
- Sensory (Visual) – pictures
- Auditory – sounds
All these systems can be used by people from time to time but it should be mentioned that every person prefers only one representational system.
If you wish to know what system is preferable for your girl you should follow these steps:
- Step 1: Ask her if she remembers the most sorrowful day in her life.
- Step 2: If her answer is “yes”, ask what thing of that day she wants to forget.
- Step 3: Also if the response is just “It was terrible!” Be sure that your date has the visual system of perceiving the world.
- Step 4: Ask her to describe exactly that day and listen to it. If her description is full of comparisons, epithets and some beautiful words you can say she’s visual.
- Step 5: Now your turn to describe your awful day using her preferred system.
- Step 6: Use her non-verbal responses describing your day. You should notice, if you are really getting through to her.
Using hypnosis with your girl
Before inducing trance states in your date you should follow one rule: never tell her about hypnosis and that you are able to do such things.
Choose a quiet place for doing it. Start.
- Step 1: You should find out what is her preferred representational system. It will help you.
- Step 2: Start telling the story about someone she doesn’t know. This story should consist of your own experience based on your sensations.
- Step 3: Try to describe erotic body sensations as thoroughly as possible. Lead her into a kinesthetic system of perception.
- Step 4: Don’t stop talking, approach to her closer and closer and then suddenly grab her. You won’t feel her resistance, she will be yours.
How to use visual system
- Step 1: You should know that there are two types of visual images in your mind:
- you see yourself in the picture (disassociated)
- you see only circumstance or event as if you were there at that time and don’t see yourself (associated)
- Imagine how you behave with your woman in a new way with the help of disassociated images.
Step 2: Now use another type of images to create new behavior. What does it look like?
- Step 3: Imagine what you would feel using your new behavior (body sensations, voice)
These sensations can help in any situation. You can call them up if you really need them.
How to use your body feelings
- Step 1: Try to remember the time when you were powerful and poised
- Step 2: Close your eyes and conjure up the past, all your feelings, thoughts, etc.
- Step 3: When these memories reach their peak, anchor them by squeezing your left hand with your right one. Keep holding that movement as you go on experiencing those powerful feelings.
- Step 4: Repeat previous three steps at least two times.
- Step 5: Imagine an event where you want be powerful and confidential with woman. Remember it with the same squeezing.
- Step 6: Keep holding this feeling with the squeeze.
- Step 7: Try to do this once a day and you’ll see that it works without your having to think about at the time you are in such situation.
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